A professor friend of mine and I were talking about our experience when we were children. He mentions that he had a great relationship with his parents but he was never able to provide me with any examples. Interestingly, he then states that it doesn't matter since parental relationships are not that important anyway. My friend can likely be categorised as having which adult attachment style?

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Dismissive-avoidant adults tend to minimize the importance of attachment and distance themselves emotionally, so the vignette points to an avoidant style.

1) Relevant knowledge points and concepts
- Adult attachment styles: secure, dismissive-avoidant, preoccupied (anxious/ambivalent), and fearful-disorganized.  
- Dismissive-avoidant (often labeled simply “avoidant”) is characterized by emotional distance, downplaying the role of close relationships, and deactivating attachment memories. Preoccupied/ambivalent shows anxiety, vivid examples, and strong concern about relationships. Disorganized/fearful shows contradictory behaviors and often unresolved trauma. “Insecure” is a broad umbrella, not a specific style.

2) Step-by-step reasoning
- The friend “mentions that he had a great relationship with his parents but was never able to provide any examples.” That suggests he gives a positive summary but avoids elaboration or emotional detail — a sign of deactivating strategies.  
- He then says “it doesn’t matter since parental relationships are not that important anyway.” This explicitly minimizes the importance of attachment relationships, a hallmark of dismissive-avoidant adults who tend to downplay closeness.

3) Intermediate inference steps (no numeric calculations)
- Statement A: Positive but vague recollection → emotional distancing/deactivation.  
- Statement B: Minimization of parental relationships → dismissal of attachment significance.  
- Combine A + B → pattern consistent with avoidant/dismissive-avoidant attachment.

4) Why the correct answer is correct
- The avoidant style explains both the lack of concrete examples (emotional suppression/deactivation) and the verbal minimization of parental bonds. These are core avoidant strategies to maintain independence and avoid intimacy.

5) Why the other options are incorrect
- b. Insecure: too general; does not specify the avoidant pattern seen.  
- c. Disorganised: would show confused, contradictory, or frightened accounts and unresolved trauma signs, not consistent minimization.  
- d. Ambivalent: would produce detailed, emotionally intense recollections and concern about relationships — opposite of the downplaying shown.

6) Conclusion
All evidence points to an avoidant (dismissive-avoidant) adult attachment style. This matches the provided answer: a. Avoidant.

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